Why I'm not participating in A Day Without a WomanI come from a long line of strong women. Women who run businesses, travel, volunteer, march and donate. Women who advocate and educate. When I think about their impact on my life though, smaller things stand out. My Grandma Lorenia poured out love in crystal goblets filled with root beer and hours of card games. She believed that every person was valuable. She served through cancer and poverty and unending demands. Her laughter was contagious. Her legacy was joy. My Grandma Viola sewed love into packages and prayers. She saved, she served, she perservered. She loved tight hugs, warm cookies and weddings. Her legacy was faithfulness. My mother-in-law Carleen ran courage into everyone she met. She was fully supportive and passionate about art and flowers and children. She made everyone she met feel welcome. Her legacy is kindness. My mother Sue is a bright and fierce force of a person. She's got a twinkle in her eye and she has the ability to make me laugh better than any one. This photo is an excerpt of a letter she wrote me when I turned two years old. I have letters from aunties and cousins. Sisters and friends. Beautiful women who wrote on my soul and call me to be present. To be faithful. Walking out to prove a point seems dishonest to their steadfast love. Earlier today I had to make a tough decision. I've been working long hours lobbying for a bill in the upcoming legislaive session. Couple of trips to the state capitol to meet with various governmental types. I received news today that I'd been invited to a dinner with a senator. Great opportunity for professional development. Problem is the dinner is on the same night as my daughter's choir concert. I'd already promised her I'd go. As I sat and mulled my options I thought about the Day without a Woman. I am quite certain I'm not necessary at the dinner meeting. My colleagues can handle it without me. But my daughter? I don't want her to figure out what it looks like when mom bails. I want her memories to be full of a steadfast mom who showed up when the call was hard. A mom who delivered on promises even when she wasn't being appreciated. A mom who thanked God because He allowed me to be her mother. So I declined the invitation with the Senator and circled my plans for a night with the elementary school choir. So today I'll wake up my babies. I'll help pick out their clothes and play my part in the daily taxi. I'll go to work. Not because I'm special or different or better than the hundreds of thousands of women who do the same thing every day. But because this investment in our future has more potential to affect change than any strike, any meeting, any lobbying effort. The legacy is love. And the power of love has nothing to do with protests or demands but everything to do with gratitude, service, peace and patience. Should we ignore injustice? Of course not. But love is the only weapon strong enough to win. Today I'd like to invite you to write on someone else's heart. Those words have eternal weight. Rather than making someone notice you are gone, how about making someone else feel seen? Those are not small actions. ENTER TO WINI've got a new set of note cards, envelopes and gel pens to get you started on your legacy notes. Write your kids, your friends, your parents, your spouse. Tell them you love them. I'll be giving this set to a winner randomly drawn from anyone who comments on this post or shares the post. Winner will be drawn Friday March 10, 2017. No purchase necessary. Prize mailed in the contenintal US only.
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Elizabeth
3/8/2017 07:31:32 am
Beautiful. And what a treasure to have all those letters to read!!! When my sons were born I picked out this verse: "Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart." Proverbs 3:3
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Dylan Chumbley
3/8/2017 07:55:04 am
You are so sweet and fun and this blog totally describes you . GO GIRLS🕵️♀️👩⚕️👩🌾👩🍳👩🎓👩🏫👩🏭👩💻
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Sherrill Giusti
3/8/2017 09:34:46 am
I love this, Mindy! Thank the Lord for moms, grandmas and sisters 💜
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Tiffany Tremaine
3/8/2017 09:35:23 am
Wow, what treasured memories. If I made a list you, your Mom, you sister, your sister in law and her sister would be on it. You all have made a huge influence on how I am worthy not just has a woman but has a human. You inspire me daily to see the God moments in our everyday to do's. I am so grateful for God and how he is always in the details. May you be encouraged that what you are doing here and in your adventures and journey called life that you are making a difference by bringing God into it.
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3/8/2017 10:01:48 am
Oh, my Mindy! You truly revved up my fee-fees on this! The written note, a letter, a card, - the power of the word is like a 'now and later' it brings double joy when read upon its receipt and each time it is revisited, very encouraging long after its sender is heavenward. I very much enjoyed your focus today, thank you for the spirit lifter.
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Jessica Yake
3/8/2017 12:37:57 pm
Loved this! I loved the legacy letters from your family. I save all mine too!
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Bekah
3/8/2017 06:12:41 pm
Beautiful post Mindy! It inspires me to write more for our boys.It's not something that I have prioritized.
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Armida
3/9/2017 09:36:58 pm
Your girls are indeed in a lineage of beautiful, strong and godly women. They are blessed. I can't wait to see them grow up and love the Lord as you do.
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